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Lack of communication is one of the main factors for separation. Even when there is love and respect between couples, monotony, lack of interest or attention, and other problems gradually diminish until they become turning points, at which couples must decide between making an effort or saying goodbye. These are six typical mistakes when trying to improve communication and tips to resolve your situation through games that strengthen the relationship.
Six typical mistakes when trying to improve communication between couples.
Mistake #1: Bringing Up Past Mistakes
Be careful with this! If you are discussing a particular problem, the healthiest and most manageable thing, according to experts, is to focus only on that one issue. Furthermore, trying to cover all the problems of the past in a single discussion is not very productive.
Mistake #2: The Silent Treatment
Staying away from your partner and avoiding interacting when they go through a tough time is not the best strategy. That shows indifference or lack of interest and can only make things worse.
Mistake #3: Screaming? No, thanks!
Raising your voice and resorting to yelling – no matter how difficult it may be to contain yourself – is not an effective way to deal with differences. You will only distance yourself further and create a hostile environment. Keeping calm is the first thing.
Mistake #4: Sarcasm and Humiliation
Sarcasm will hurt your partner’s feelings; do not use these forms of expression to belittle or humiliate your loved one. Empathy and respect are essential for this moment to be as productive as possible.
Mistake #5: Disrespectful Body Language
Remember that body language conveys a lot! Avoid having attitudes of superiority or arrogance during conversations. Respectful and open body language will help strengthen your communication.
Mistake #6: Running away is never the solution
If you walk away during a fundamental conversation, you are bound to leave the conflict unresolved. Don’t leave without reaching a solution or understanding. Face the problem and propose to find a way out together!
Now that you know the six most common mistakes when trying to improve communication as a couple, it’s time to leave the old dynamics behind and consider a new way to connect through the power of play. Through constructive and fun guidance supported by therapists, you can take your life as a couple to the next level of connection.
Take the test today and ask your partner questions like, ‘If you were a billionaire, what pleasures would you give yourself? Or ‘If you could be born at any time in history, what era would you choose and why? You will get these questions, and many others, in one of Daniella and Daniel’s bestsellers called Conversing and Getting to Know Yourself. Here, you will find fun categories like Do you know me? Icebreakers’ to some crazier ones like If you had to…, Or if you want something hotter, try telling your partner something from the ‘It’s getting hot’ category, like ‘Pick a sexy scene from a movie you’d like to recreate with me,’ and let their imagination run free.
In total, there are six categories in which Daniella and Daniel consulted with professional couples therapists to create a game that is also unique, effective, and fun to deepen relationships. You may surprise yourself with the questions you get in this game, but beyond that, how easy it can be to have a better relationship after a few minutes of playing.
Learn more at Making Happy Couples.
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